A punching bag.
Full of demons,
ghosts and phantoms.
That need to get rocked,
slammed, kicked, out of me.
I kick leading with my hips,
that you once grabbed,
adored, kissed, marveled.
I punch with the strength,
I gained from leaving you for me.
I grunt, because I wish I never had.
the most amazing maple balsamic dressing
- olive oil
- balsamic vinegar
- maple syrup
- dijon mustard
- salt and pepper
There have been quite a lot of pseudo-journalism articles going around lately about why “voluntourism” is bad. After reading quite a few of them, I feel as though I have to say something, since I have “voluntoured” quite a bit.
My first experience volunteering abroad was in rural Honduras, building a school with about 13 other high school kids. This is one example that is often looked down upon: sending middle-class kids from Western countries to go help people living in developing countries in tasks in which they are not skilled - that this does more harm than good. This criticism is seriously skimming the surface.
My experience in Honduras, it really stressed that it was us AND the community working together to build the school. The community leaders were the ones telling us what to do. For the most part, those of us with little experience would be doing odd jobs, like shovelling dirt to be made into concrete into a wheelbarrow and rolling it down a hill, meanwhile learning bits of spanish and playing with kids.
Each member of our team had to fundraise $3000 for the trip, was encouraged to learn some spanish and we brought over lots of donated tools, clothes, sport gear for the kids, things that were actually very useful. We worked with a local NGO, who knew the community’s needs well and employed locals.
Sure, we were not skilled construction workers, but the fact is that we are privileged, and we were using it for good; by donating our time, money and energy so other people could have opportunities like us. This experience changed my life. I learned the value in manual labour, and as a somewhat socially awkward person, it taught me the value of human connection. I was 15 at the time and always wanted to travel, this was the first opportunity I really took. Little did I know that it would actually lead me to realize the invaluable experiences volunteering offers, locally or globally.
I have been lucky enough to volunteer in places like Cuba and Ukraine, but also in Canada. I volunteered full time for 6 months in the Katimavik program in Nova Scotia and have volunteered on different farms on the East coast. These experiences within Canada changed me just as much as those abroad, but I probably wouldn’t have realized their importance without my initial experience abroad, which gave me some much needed culture shock. Volunteering strengthens communities: it offers experience and knowledge to the volunteers, while giving free labour to the communities. I never knew the value in community, in working together, in giving, until I volunteered.
The bottom line is, the world is our community. Our problems are global, are borders are becoming more and more irrelevant, we are citizens of the world, our nationalities and privileges shouldn’t define us or our ability to make an impact. Whether you volunteer for your neighbour or volunteer abroad, the point is, you are strengthening our community, by strengthening your own skills and helping others. Do whatever you can to make someone else’s life a little bit easier, no matter how small, and the world will be a better place.
In response to the criticism about Westeners volunteering abroad, I want to offer my experience, that has changed me extensively for the better and I think helped make the world a better place, even if just a little. If sending teenagers to Central America gets them off their couches and makes them volunteer more, think more about the way their actions affect others: I’m all for it. The issue here is not sending out kids abroad to help others, it is truly how ineffective international development can be. As a student of international development and globalization, I can tell you that I am currently on the path, with thousands of other students, that we are working to find ways for the world to develop effectively and sustainably, so the world can be a better place, for everyone.
These were two of the articles that inspired this post (read on and fully inform yourself to develop your own opinion):